It was on a so-called dating website that Pelicot was able to chat freely with others about sexual violence and instigate rapes of his then-wife. Gisele Pelicot was drugged by him and, while unconscious, raped over 200 times by 70 men who all first met Pelicot online.
These messages have served as key evidence in the trial of Dominique Pelicot and the 50 co-defendants tracked down by police. The majority of them, including Pelicot, have been accused of aggravated rape, in a case that has horrified France and forced the country to address systemic male violence against women.
Using pseudonyms, Pelicot himself had engaged in an online community where sexual abuse was shared and normalized. Over time, the police reports show how the 72-year-old put together an elaborate framework to organize the abuse of his wife.
Gisele Pelicot has testified she was completely unaware of her husband’s actions. Over time, however, the frequent sedation and sexual abuse began to take a physical toll. Her husband accompanied her on several doctor’s visits during which she complained about memory loss and pelvic pain, according to court documents.
It was only after Dominique Pelicot was arrested in a nearby supermarket in September 2020 for filming up the skirts of female customers, for which he was later convicted, that his dark web of crimes came to light. Pelicot received an eight-month suspended prison sentence for this offense.
Whilst investigating the upskirting, police officers confiscated his hard drive, laptop and phones and found hundreds of images and videos of his wife of 50 years allegedly being raped, opening one of the most horrifying sex offense cases in modern French history.
Gisele Pelicot chose to waive her anonymity and face the men accused in a court process open to the media and members of the public.
While 15 including Pelicot have pleaded guilty to rape, others said they thought that a husband’s consent sufficed. In court, Pelicot’s defense lawyer Beatrice Zavarro denied claims by co-defendants that Pelicot acted as a “conductor” who forced and manipulated them to abuse his wife.
During his testimony, Pelicot himself stressed that the responsibility for the rapes should be shared among the accused, saying: “I am a rapist just like all the others in this room.”
All 51 defendants are presumed innocent until the verdicts, expected on December 19. The public prosecutor has requested jail sentences from four to 20 years, with the maximum sentence of 20 years demanded for Pelicot.
The case has upended France, with many saying that the landmark trial will be remembered as the country’s reckoning with sexual violence in the digital age. Campaigners have called for the law to be changed to require consent to be given for sexual relations. The government has also announced new measures to combat violence against women in light of the case.
“It’s time that the macho, patriarchal society that trivializes rape changes,” Gisele Pelicot said in her final statement to the court.
“It’s time we changed the way we look at rape.”
For years, spaces like Coco.fr gave voice to this kind of misogynistic discourse.
Set up in 2003 and marketed as a dating site, at its peak in 2023 it received 778,000 visits a month, according to Le Parisien. The site’s entirely unmoderated chatrooms fostered graphic discussions on often illegal subjects.
Rather than merely facilitating discussions on illegal activity, instances of violence soon began spilling over into the real world. Significant numbers of Coco users began alleging they were attacked during meet-ups arranged through the site. At least two murders in France have been linked to encounters arranged on Coco, according to French media.
Coco and the Pelicot case: The key dates
2003
Coco.fr founded by Isaac Steidl.
A screenshot of the earliest version of the coco.fr homepage available in online archives.
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July 2011
Dominique Pelicot starts recruiting men over Coco.
2018
Michel Sollossi, a 55-year-old accountant, is stabbed to death by a man he met on coco.fr in what is deemed a homophobic hate crime by prosecutors.
September 2020
Dominique Pelicot arrested for filming up women’s skirts in a supermarket. He’s later convicted for this.
Jan 2021 – May 2024
Over 23,000 legal proceedings opened against Coco by 480 victims, according to the Paris prosecutor.
2022
The site’s domain is moved from France to Guernsey, leaving the jurisdiction of French prosecutors. Isaac Steidl, the founder of Coco, moves himself and his company to Bulgaria and renounces his French nationality.
2023
France’s cybercrime unit opens an investigation into Coco, supported by French NGOs who had been tracking the site for years.
A screenshot of the coco.gg homepage from 2023, after the site moved to Guernsey.
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June, 2024
Coco is shut down by French authorities. Isaac Steidl is taken in for questioning in Sofia in connection with the investigation by authorities. Steidl has not been charged with any crimes.
While Coco was closed down over the summer, NGOs and lawyers have warned that a lack of adequate safeguards may allow other websites to step in and take its place.
A clear trend emerged of men sharing explicit photos of their wives and girlfriends on the site for the pleasure of other men. It is unclear if the photos were taken or exchanged with the women’s consent.
Who jerks off to my wife’s photo?
So good to see your wife getting f**ked
Who exchanges nude of their girlfriend on Snapchat?
Who exchanges on platforms other than here?
Who is up for sharing on Snapchat?
Who wants to share photos of our wives in private?
Women generally, and often female partners specifically, were frequently objectified and referred to by derogatory language. Some men offered up their wives to other users, in a manner strikingly similar to Pelicot, although it is unclear if any of them set up real-life encounters.
I dream of seeing my wife submissive and humiliated by a couple
Who is trading that woman for mine?
The two lawyers representing Gisele Pelicot have repeatedly warned in court that these kinds of dangers will continue to exist if websites such as Coco are allowed to operate without sufficient scrutiny or legal challenge.
One of them, Antoine Camus, has likened the site to the “murder weapon” Dominique Pelicot used to carry out his alleged crimes, telling the court that “without this website” the case “would never have reached such proportions.”
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Credits (from top left): Christophe Simon/AFP/Getty Images, Geoffroy va der Hasselt/AFP/Getty Images, Manon Cruz/Reuters, Abdul Saboor/Reuters
Efforts by authorities so far have done little to assuage the concerns of many women in France, including in the medieval village of Mazan where Pelicot carried out his alleged crimes.
“It could very well happen again tomorrow in another place,” she said.
Another resident, Nedeljka Macan, said: “We can’t do anything. We remain here in Mazan.”
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